Thursday, August 13, 2009

Fake People

Are there any real people left in this world?


Why is it that people can not be themselves anymore and they walk around trying to be something they are not?

Take for instance, I met this guy and we started talking and he sounded like the perfect man. He had a job, transportation, no kids, and actually paid his bills. I wasnt expecting anything to come of it but hey you never know, right. Well anyway, he had just recently cme out of a relationship and you could tell he was still hung up on her which is fine and all; especially since I am still trying to get divorced. You ask him if he is still in love with her, he answers no. You ask him if they will get back together, he answers no.

Now here lies the problem with all this. After all the no answers I get, the phone comments i would leave on his page start being deleted, then the texts start to slow down, and finally the phone calls stop. So, I sit here and think to myself, "Hmmm, they must be getting back together". I text and ask. He calls and says no once again. So imagen my surprise when I look at his page and see his status has changed that indeed he is once again in a relationship.

Okay seeing that we are just friends, why all the dodging? Why can't you just tell me the truth instead of what you think I want to hear? Just be you and if that is what makes you happy than just do and and don't care what others think. If I was supposively a true friend like you said than there should not have been an issue in telling me. You don't have to ignore my texts, comments, and so on. I can handle the truth and not be hurt. Yes, I thought of what it would be like but damn, I am human after all. Then there is this thing called reality to where I knew that all there would be is friendship and baby I accepted that way before you started falling off the earth.

So what have we learned from this? Try being upfront and tell people the truth no matter what their reaction maybe. It's better to be you and be honest than to hide from the truth because sooner or later you will be found and once you are found out and you want something later on my back will be turned!!!!

1 comment:

  1. Girl, I hear you. Is it really that hard to tell someone hey I found someone else or I am back with my ex. If you are trying to prevent them from being hurt don't you thinkif you don't tell them they will be hurt worse. What happen to treating people the way you wanted to be treated. Hang in there sweetie, he wasn't worth your time anyways.

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