Marriage and Divorce

Fot those of you that are thinking about getting married I suggest that you think long and hard about it. Most people these days just do it and don't realize what they are getting into. I am one of those people. I got married for all the wrong reasons. I was thinking maybe he will change and I am getting to that age where I hadnt been married yet and wanted to be. Boy was that a big mistake!!!!

Now here I am getting divorced.

What is it with people that when you are finally over their shit and you have left them that then they decide to change. Its one of those that they finally realize what they had. All I have to say is to bad for ya. You should have realized it a lot sooner cuz now I am tired and refuse to put up with your bullshit anymore.

I have mediation next week and I hope that this will be the end to this process. I have spent so much money already and I am just over this shit. The only thing that is stopping this from being over with is the child support issue. What the hell is it with men not paying for their children. If you are man enough to sleep with a woman than you should be man enough to pay the consequences. I am not a gold digger by any means but hell, step up to the plate and be the father that you keep trying to tell me you are.

Marriage is so over rated these days and isnt worth it anymore like it use to be back in the day. Back then when a man loved a woman he truely loved her and cherished her. not the crap you have today. Now people tell you want you want to hear and start scheming once your back is turned.

So if you ask me don't get married unless you are so positive that they are the one and even after that give it another thought. I know I will never get married again. I learned my lesson.